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Personal Notes from the Piggy

Last night Tess had a part in her first play in German! The timing was awkward, somewhere along the way a note was missed, and we had planned Dave’s birthday party the same night as Tess’ play.  A little creative planning, flexible friends, and we fit both into one long night.  Our neighbors pitched in and not only ferried Tess to her play early, but got us tickets and seats all together.

When we got there, five minutes before curtains up, our biggest problem was parking on the narrow side streets.  We also didn’t have time to load up at the cash bar parked right outside the theater doors.  Germans are exceedingly practical and I shouldn’t have been surprised to see beer & wine being the number one fundraiser at a school function.  In fact, I should have planned to buy some glühwein to sip while enjoying  the show.

Honestly, I could have used a drink to sit through the play.  I’m not a play person.  Put it all in German, with school age children, and mediocre microphones, and it’s anstrenged (exhausting).   Leonardo und das magische Amulett is about a boy from 1348 who, magically, gets transported to 2011.  In his first minutes there he panics at the sight of a dragon… the best special effects of the night: a huge poster of an 18-wheeler toted across the stage.

The whole play, or rather rock-mystical, is set to pounding 70’s disco music.  All accompanied by high-pitched solo’s and the enthusiastic choirs of all three small towns that make up our neighborhood.  I thoroughly enjoyed the choirs. The kids rocked and sang their little hearts out.  Some of them, like Tess, obviously thought they were center stage and played to the audience. Still, intermission couldn’t come fast enough and we thoroughly enjoyed our mimosa’s and “hot dogs”.  Hot dogs in Germany are longer, thinner and come with a shorter, crustier bun.  While I love them, I wonder every time why, after centuries of making “hot dogs”, they haven’t figured out how to make the bun long enough to c over the dog.

Finally the curtain fell, and rose again to the whole cast.  The audience burst into thundering applause as the kids beamed on stage, and Tess took a bow.  And another bow.  And yet a third bow.   I’m sure I mentioned she had a part in the choir, one of the choirs at that, and yet the bows she took, complete with sweeping arms, were truly worthy of a star.  I’m thinking taking a bow is not part of the German culture.

After we quickly rushed home to a house teeming with guests, hot BBQ’s and a blazing fire out on the patio.  Dave has learned to doctor up a wicked glühwein  and we had a wonderful evening under the stars with our friends, speaking English, and celebrating his birthday.

Dave on his Birthday

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Time is slipping through my fingers faster than I like. I’m beyond thankful for my newsletters. I’m finding myself going back through them and adding my personal notes here to the kids scrapbooks. What a huge blessing this task has been. It’s become a journal to remind me of all the little things I was sure I would not ever forget.

Today is St. Martins day again. I can’t believe a year has gone by since our first lanterne laufen with Danes school. This time we were fully prepared. This time I had a glass for the gluhwein after, and this time we had our lanterns ready. In fact, on Monday Dane, Tess and I spent an hour tracing, cutting, gluing and sweating to get our lanterns ready.

The teachers already had the templates ready, grass, a hedgehog, a moon and a bunny. Tracing the templates was already tricky, but cutting grass out of curling wax paper, and a hedgehog too, had me feverishly working with my tongue half out of my mouth. Apparently keeping your tongue half out of your mouth helps concentration. Who knew?

Once the cutting was completed it was time for gluing. Gluing turned out to be even harder than cutting. The wax paper cut-outs kept trying to curl back up into a tube, and all the edges on the grass and the hedgehog kept trying to glue on everything but the main lantern paper. I did it though! I got the whole lantern traced, cut & glued. Then I had to glue the whole scenic paper to top & bottom & attach the handle. Also all with curling paper that wanted to glue to everything but the top & bottom. Finally finished, I got lots of compliments from the teachers, the other mothers and even the kids.

Then, last night, at last, came our lanterne laufen (literally lantern walk). Dane was so fascinated with the lightbulb dangling from his stick he would not let me cover it with the lantern shade I’d spent an hour tracing, cutting & gluing.

Lanterne laufen

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I spent over a phone on the hour with my oldest baby today. Soren is 21, in California, at university and has a girlfriend I’ve never met. I’d like to change that. He’d like to change that. He wants to bring her home for Christmas. Eeeep. Yes!

It’s a male-dominated world I live in, even with the three big boys out of the house most days of the year. I’m ecstatic Danielle is coming for a month. I love her already. I’m nervous she won’t love us quite as much. Then again, she’s been spending an awful lot time with him. And he is used to a big family. From what I can tell, he’s created a big family at school too. As his roommates recent FB photo clearly shows.

This is Soren, far left, Danielle and friends in their living room on a recent school night. See? I think he has well-prepared her for life in our house.

at home

Not that we sit quietly on the couch, all with laptops, an aquarium gurgling quietly in the background. That is something that never happens. I’m pretty sure it’s not always the case at Sorens house either. I know half of those boys are on the rugby team with him, and a like number work the rock wall with him. All of them snowboard, or ski. It is not a quiet crowd. And since we are not a quiet crowd, I think Danielle will feel right at home. Is it December yet?

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I smelled snow in the air yesterday.  I tried very hard to not do a little happy dance out on my front porch, in front of all the neighbors, who already think of us as the crazy Americans.  I love snow.  A couple more weeks and we’ll be playing in the snow.  For now, it’s cold & rainy & very, very dark in the mornings.  So dark that Dane is having a hard time getting up.  I wake him, he strains to open his eyes, barely lifts his head;

“It’s dark.  There is no school in the dark.” And lays back down.  Every morning it’s a long, slow process getting that boy up.  Thank goodness kindy is not strict on getting-there time.

This brings me to; my boy is a boy.  Dane is no longer a baby.  He was late to potty train, but he is fully out of diapers since summer.  Earlier this month we tossed out all the sippy cups and now we have matching mommy & son glasses from Ikea.  I have the big 16 oz. ones, he has the small 6 oz. ones.  This week we finally tossed out all the “M” socks, he really fought us on this, and now we have 16 pair of brand new “L” socks in his drawer.  For the first time I bought his new jeans not in the baby department, but in the boy department.  And he is out of our bed, out of the toddler bed, and in a big boy bed.

This age, he is four, is one of my favorite ages.  Granted he talks too much, and I’m very thankful when Dave is home at night to take over the listening, but I love his talking.  I love his thought processes.  I can almost see his brain grow. I can almost see the new connections and understanding inside his mind.  He is truly learning the consequences of his actions.  I’ve seen him stop, think and change what he is doing.  One of the best examples is his desire to make my life easier.

Dane chooses to do chores for me.  Not because I asked, but because it makes my job “easier”.  His words.  Because I “do stuff for me”( for him).  Like Cole, Dane is a giver.  It is not something I did, but something God has placed inside him.  Dane, and Cole, both are the first to walk over to a crying child, to have sympathy, empathy.  Both are quick to give hugs.  And Dane thinks ahead to what will put a smile on my face.  Right now I’m loving his determination to keep all the shoes out of the front hallway, and tidy them up in their cubbies.  I hate tripping over shoes.  Dane knows this and is now the official Keeper of Shoes.  You should see him beam with pride every time I say thank you.  I say thank you a lot.

Dane & Dave had a man date on Tuesday.  They both got new hair cuts.

Dave & Dane

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