Dinah do you have us allowed in your email account? I am pretty sure Toiny had emailed you a new password.
I'm so sorry your problem with our store hasn't been corrected yet.
here are a few answers about the my account buttons in the personal use store.
when you are logged in the my account button is below the search button in the left column or you can find it in the header by hovering over shop>personal use shop>my account
wish list is also there.
have you cleared all your cache and cookies and temp internet files? when we do any updates in the store it helps to minimize problems if old cookies and cache stores are emptied.
you can see how to do that here, this may be helpful to other customers too
email me at firstname.lastname@example.org
if you want me to send you a new password. I can certainly do that and after your cookies and cache are cleared hopefully that will fix the problem.