I played around with this all afternoon, what fun. I came up with two pictures, I'm CT so can't compete so figured I'd show you both of what I did.
This one I made a mask so that I could use gausian blur in pse to blur the background even more than it was, then I used Pioneer Woman's Sharpen action to sharpen the girl image in the picture. Then I went to Funny.Phot.to and added a Bokeh effect that they have.
In this one I just used Pioneer Woman's sharp action to sharpen the face and flowers a bit, then I used the same boken effect to enhance the photo.