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tripmom06




SAS-y Girl

Registered: January 2008
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Paper, ribbon by Lisa West - Nadia's Treasures kit
WordArt by JulieC
Ribbon by JenLin- Wreck of the Day kit
Frame by BooLand Designs
Paper by CanDesigns - Crystal Palace kit
Journal mat by CanDesigns - Mermaid's Heart
Floral string by Lily Bell

Not quite 2007, but one of my most emotional journeys.

Journaling:
While being on bedrest with twins, we went for a follow up appointment at 10 weeks. Holding my breath to hear the 2 heartbeats, my husband started to laugh hysterically & the doctor was shaking his head. I looked up at the monitor, where I saw 3 heartbeats. My mom had arrived that morning and when the initial shock wore off, we sat down and had a long talk about NICU life and preemies, and the fact that selective reduction could possibly be advised by the doctor. I remember telling her that I would rather have 1 hour with them then to reduce just because there was 3. Little did I know how those words were about to hit hard.

At 12 weeks I went in for a follow up appointment. Nothing could have prepared me for this appointment. When the ultrasound tech left the room to get the doctor, I still had no idea what I was about to hear. The look on his face said everything. There was a problem.

Baby C had lost all the amniotic fluid. There was a heartbeat, but without the fluid, the baby would not develop properly. I was told that day that 1 of many things could have happened. My water could have broken, it could have been a chronic abruption, or Potter's Syndrome. He felt that the heartbeat would probably stop and that I would continue as a twin preganncy. Or, if the sac ruptured, I could go into preterm labor and lose the entire pregnancy. Either way, Baby C was not going to make it. I don't remember walking out of his office, driving home, or telling my husband. We went back to the doctor the next day so he could talk to us. He advised us that IF the baby made it to delivery, life expectancy was 1-4 hours max, due to the fact that no lung tissue had developed.

We went for every week for ultrasounds, wondering if this would be the day that my triplet pregnancy officially became a twin pregnancy. What most women find joyous, I approached with fear every time the ultrasound machine was turned on. At week 18, I remember being told that since the heart was till beating, that the baby would make it to delivery, and I had to decide what to do.

Instead of picking out nursery colors, I was deciding between a funeral or cremation. How was I going to make it through delivery and celebrate the birth of the 2 surviving babies and grieve at the same time?

When someone asked me what I was having, I said twins. I actually got to the point where instead of dealing with the rollar coaster, I convinced myself that I was having twins just to get through the rest of my pregnancy.

At 22 weeks we went for an ultrasound. The tech left the room to get the doctor& I thought this was the end. The doctor came in, looked at the monitor and said - "Baby C has fluid".

On that day, we found out that Baby C had gained some, not much fluid. Enought to have a pediatric cardiologist to evaluate the heart/lung ratio.

At 27 1/2 weeks, we were told that the baby had a 50/50 chance, instead of 0%.

4 days later my water broke at 28 weeks.

The next 11 days were a blur. At 6am on the morning of May 8, 2006, we picked a name for our daughter. At 7:34am, 2 minutes after Dominic and 2 minutes before Ryan, she was born, a 2lb, 3oz miracle.

75 days later, on July 21, 2006, Aspen Kinleigh Grace came home.

I look forward to the day when I can sit down and tell her all about her story, and how she defied the odds. But deep down iside, I think she already knows.
Date: Sat February 2, 2008 Views: 483
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Stella

theStudio Picasso

Registered: November 2007
Location: Beautiful New Brunswick
Posts: 1,228
Sat February 2, 2008 12:23

oh my... wow... there are no words for me right now...but there are tears! ... breathe... simply beautiful. thank you so much for sharing Aspen's story with us... thank you very much. Your page is super, with the pics the way you placed them; the journaling is without compare...

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JCSimon

SAS-y Pearl

Registered: December 2007
Location: Muskegon, MI
Posts: 505
Sat February 2, 2008 13:11

Wow! Such a miracle. :-) Thanks so much for sharing.

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sharpli

theStudio Picasso

Registered: July 2007
Location: Leesburg, FL
Posts: 1,276
Sat February 2, 2008 14:58

What an awesome page and story. Beautifully done.

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makeyesup

theStudio Monet

Registered: July 2007
Location: Illinois
Posts: 2,357
Sun February 3, 2008 23:16

wow, what a story and more proof that God know what he is doing. This one gave me the chills and brought tears to my eyes. How wonderful that you have all three.

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Tue February 5, 2008 20:35

Congratulations on your triplets! Your LO is great and of course, the journaling is awesome!
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Ogreger
SAS-y Scrapper

Registered: January 2008
Posts: 2
Wed February 6, 2008 11:06

Wow. (I have three preemies, but only one that was that early, and only one at a time.) Aspen's story is beautiful. TVMFS!!!
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darlingina

theStudio Monet

Registered: August 2007
Location: Central Oklahoma
Posts: 2,289
Fri February 8, 2008 08:03

Very beautiful page and touching journaling. Ty for sharing. Love & Peace

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Country Liv

theStudio Artist

Registered: December 2007
Location: Charlotte, North Carolina, USA
Posts: 255
Mon February 18, 2008 09:46

I didn't need to cry today . . . but at least they were tears of happiness for you, your family and mostly for little Aspen. Bravo for sharing such a heart rendering but ultimately successful experience on a truly beautiful layout. Thank you.

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boo.6204

theStudio Designer

Registered: July 2007
Location: I live in a sweet small seaside town called Southport in the uk.
Posts: 3,648
Mon February 18, 2008 23:53

OMG, I love the lo straight off but the story just got me, right there, you know whaat I mean?. What a wonderful happy outcome to such a scary time for you. Naturally, shes a winner, she was born on my birthday hehe
Hugs to you and your beautiful family
Boo x

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patchas

theStudio QC CT

Registered: July 2007
Posts: 906
Wed February 20, 2008 15:16

Our God is an awesome God. God bless your little girl and watch over her. What an incredible story, and a beautiful LO to tell it.

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Pacifika

theStudio Monet

Registered: January 2008
Location: Spokane, WA
Posts: 2,803
Thu February 21, 2008 15:38

Wow, good job hanging in there. I'm so happy for you.

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rachnmaddie

SAS-y Pebble

Registered: November 2007
Location: Pittsburgh, PA
Posts: 98
Sun March 30, 2008 14:17

Incredible. You are so brave - what a miracle ! No matter what she does in life, she is already inspired so many just by you creating this. I am speechless. Thank you for sharing

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