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Aspen's Story



Paper, ribbon by Lisa West - Nadia's Treasures kit

WordArt by JulieC

Ribbon by JenLin- Wreck of the Day kit

Frame by BooLand Designs

Paper by CanDesigns - Crystal Palace kit

Journal mat by CanDesigns - Mermaid's Heart

Floral string by Lily Bell



Not quite 2007, but one of my most emotional journeys.



Journaling:

While being on bedrest with twins, we went for a follow up appointment at 10 weeks. Holding my breath to hear the 2 heartbeats, my husband started to laugh hysterically & the doctor was shaking his head. I looked up at the monitor, where I saw 3 heartbeats. My mom had arrived that morning and when the initial shock wore off, we sat down and had a long talk about NICU life and preemies, and the fact that selective reduction could possibly be advised by the doctor. I remember telling her that I would rather have 1 hour with them then to reduce just because there was 3. Little did I know how those words were about to hit hard.



At 12 weeks I went in for a follow up appointment. Nothing could have prepared me for this appointment. When the ultrasound tech left the room to get the doctor, I still had no idea what I was about to hear. The look on his face said everything. There was a problem.



Baby C had lost all the amniotic fluid. There was a heartbeat, but without the fluid, the baby would not develop properly. I was told that day that 1 of many things could have happened. My water could have broken, it could have been a chronic abruption, or Potter's Syndrome. He felt that the heartbeat would probably stop and that I would continue as a twin preganncy. Or, if the sac ruptured, I could go into preterm labor and lose the entire pregnancy. Either way, Baby C was not going to make it. I don't remember walking out of his office, driving home, or telling my husband. We went back to the doctor the next day so he could talk to us. He advised us that IF the baby made it to delivery, life expectancy was 1-4 hours max, due to the fact that no lung tissue had developed.



We went for every week for ultrasounds, wondering if this would be the day that my triplet pregnancy officially became a twin pregnancy. What most women find joyous, I approached with fear every time the ultrasound machine was turned on. At week 18, I remember being told that since the heart was till beating, that the baby would make it to delivery, and I had to decide what to do.



Instead of picking out nursery colors, I was deciding between a funeral or cremation. How was I going to make it through delivery and celebrate the birth of the 2 surviving babies and grieve at the same time?



When someone asked me what I was having, I said twins. I actually got to the point where instead of dealing with the rollar coaster, I convinced myself that I was having twins just to get through the rest of my pregnancy.



At 22 weeks we went for an ultrasound. The tech left the room to get the doctor& I thought this was the end. The doctor came in, looked at the monitor and said - "Baby C has fluid".



On that day, we found out that Baby C had gained some, not much fluid. Enought to have a pediatric cardiologist to evaluate the heart/lung ratio.



At 27 1/2 weeks, we were told that the baby had a 50/50 chance, instead of 0%.



4 days later my water broke at 28 weeks.



The next 11 days were a blur. At 6am on the morning of May 8, 2006, we picked a name for our daughter. At 7:34am, 2 minutes after Dominic and 2 minutes before Ryan, she was born, a 2lb, 3oz miracle.



75 days later, on July 21, 2006, Aspen Kinleigh Grace came home.



I look forward to the day when I can sit down and tell her all about her story, and how she defied the odds. But deep down iside, I think she already knows.



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Stella

theStudio Picasso
oh my... wow... there are no words for me right now...but there are tears! ... breathe... simply beautiful. thank you so much for sharing Aspen's story with us... thank you very much. Your page is super, with the pics the way you placed them; the journaling is without compare...
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#1 Sat February 2, 2008 17:23

JCSimon

SAS-y Pearl
Wow! Such a miracle. :-) Thanks so much for sharing.
Jamie



#2 Sat February 2, 2008 18:11

sharpli

theStudio Picasso
What an awesome page and story. Beautifully done.
Linda
#3 Sat February 2, 2008 19:58

makeyesup

theStudio Monet
wow, what a story and more proof that God know what he is doing. This one gave me the chills and brought tears to my eyes. How wonderful that you have all three.
#4 Mon February 4, 2008 04:16


Congratulations on your triplets! Your LO is great and of course, the journaling is awesome!
#5 Wed February 6, 2008 01:35

Ogreger

SAS-y Scrapper
Wow. (I have three preemies, but only one that was that early, and only one at a time.) Aspen's story is beautiful. TVMFS!!!
#6 Wed February 6, 2008 16:06

darlingina

theStudio Monet
Very beautiful page and touching journaling. Ty for sharing. Love & Peace
#7 Fri February 8, 2008 13:03

Country Liv

theStudio Artist
I didn't need to cry today . . . but at least they were tears of happiness for you, your family and mostly for little Aspen. Bravo for sharing such a heart rendering but ultimately successful experience on a truly beautiful layout. Thank you.




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#8 Mon February 18, 2008 14:46

boo.6204

theStudio Designer
OMG, I love the lo straight off but the story just got me, right there, you know whaat I mean?. What a wonderful happy outcome to such a scary time for you. Naturally, shes a winner, she was born on my birthday hehe

Hugs to you and your beautiful family

Boo x


#9 Tue February 19, 2008 04:53

patchas

theStudio QC CT
Our God is an awesome God. God bless your little girl and watch over her. What an incredible story, and a beautiful LO to tell it.
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#10 Wed February 20, 2008 20:16

Pacifika

theStudio Monet
Wow, good job hanging in there. I'm so happy for you.
#11 Thu February 21, 2008 20:38

rachnmaddie

SAS-y Pebble
Incredible. You are so brave - what a miracle ! No matter what she does in life, she is already inspired so many just by you creating this. I am speechless. Thank you for sharing
Rach



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